A pastor makes the case for infant baptism

By Dalton Rushing, Special Contributor…

Last Sunday was a special day in the life of our family. Our daughter, Emmaline, was welcomed into the family of God through the sacrament of baptism.

Emmaline did not make the decision to be baptized, as she is 2 months old. Her parents, partners in a clergy couple who are fluent in the language of theology, made that decision for her.

Dalton Rushing

Some would say that we have made a theological error, that baptism requires a decision on the part of the one being baptized. There has been significant chatter in recent weeks in the United Methodist world about the merits of infant baptism, due to a blog post by the Rev. Talbot Davis (http://alturl.com/i3igr/). Baptism is more meaningful, his argument goes, when it occurs to an adult. Adults who were baptized as infants wish they had waited.

To this I say: Preference misses the point.

Baptism is a sacrament. Sacraments are outward signs of inward grace, and grace flows from God. In the United Methodist tradition, grace goes before us, pulling us towards God and one another, even before we know of grace’s power or God’s goodness.

In baptism, we are claimed by God and initiated into the church. We are not saved through this act, because salvation is a process much longer and more complex than a simple act. But we are claimed by God. We are offered grace. We are reminded that God can act even in a child; you might remember that it was through the birth of a child that Christianity began.

It is true that the church (as well as the clergy) facilitates this act, but baptism is initiated by God whose grace goes before us. Infant baptism reminds us that God’s power is much larger than a simple decision; salvation is much broader than a moment in time. When we see an infant baptized, we see the ultimate argument for the power of God’s grace: even in this child, who cannot feed herself, or clothe herself, or make her own decisions—even in this child—God is at work. I am reminded that while I am called to work alongside God, the good I do is not for my own glory, but for God’s.

My own memory is also beside the point. When the church reminds me to “remember your baptism, and be thankful,” I am not supposed to pull up in my memory bank the specific incident. I am supposed to remember that I am God’s, that I have been claimed, that through the sacrament of baptism the collaborative God is at work in my life.

‘Subtle privileging’

Let me say one more thing about the merits of infant baptism. Even among those who affirm the importance of baptizing infants, there is frequently a subtle preference for adult baptism. I have heard it said that churches ought not be judged by the number of baptisms, but by the number of adult baptisms, as this latter number supposedly more accurately represents a church’s commitment to reach out to those outside its walls; these baptisms are seen as “meaning more” than the baptism of a child.

The Rev. D.B. Shelnutt Jr. of John Creek UMC baptized Emmaline Rushing as her parents, the Revs. Dalton and Stacey Rushing, looked on. PHOTO BY SARAH STILLABOWER

I do affirm the importance of reaching out, and I do believe (as Bonhoeffer says) that the church is only the church when it exists for others. We ought to be baptizing new people, for all people are God’s children and all people deserve to know God’s amazing grace. It is an important day when an adult is baptized. I, myself, was baptized as an adult.

And yet this subtle privileging of adult baptism over infant baptism once again places the focus upon the individual, rather than God, for it matters less how one comes to be claimed by God than it matters that one is claimed by God. Yes, we ought to be reaching out, and those who did not receive the sacrament of baptism as children ought to receive it as soon as they are ready to receive it. But baptism is baptism, and God’s grace is God’s grace, and no matter when we are claimed by God, it is an important day, and a day in which the company of Heaven rejoices.

Watching our daughter be baptized, surrounded by so many who love her so much, has reminded me of what a good God we serve. And when she is old enough, I look forward to telling Emmaline stories of the people who surrounded her in love and prayer—and in the promise to see that she is raised in the faith—so that she may remember her baptism, and be thankful.

The Rev. Rushing is an associate pastor at Johns Creek UMC in Johns Creek, Ga. His wife, the Rev. Stacey Rushing, is on staff there as well.

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ken ratz

The baptismal comments indicate a multiple choice/ feel good approach. if baptism is a sacrament per the Book of Discipline -the work of the holy spirit and baptismal regeneration why would a Methodist think otherwise ? The answer seems to be that Methodist are not as United
as they appear. Possibly a review of Methodist theology would be called for- “Baptismal Covenant 1” would be a good place to start. Domineus Vobiscum !

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I was one of those adults (18 years) who felt called to be baptized in my Methodist Church. I was never baptized as a youth due to our family situations of moving a lot. It is very powerful to feel God's pull in your heart to acknowledge His bond in your life. Infant Dedication is so very appropriate in that it charges the family and the congregation to raise a baby upright in the eyes of our Lord. As long as we formally bless our baby in the eyes of the church, our families, the congregation, and God, there is… Read more »


All 3 of our sons were baptized as infants–just was the thing to do, according to umc tradition. I was baptized in an Episcopal church when I was probably 7 because my sister, cousins, and a "want to be" cousin were doing the same thing. I wondered why. When I was in high school, unbeknown to my parents, I joined a Southern Baptist Church and was dunked–I knew why and that was VERY important. One son is an inactive methodist, one is a nondenom pastor, and one is a very active Southern Baptist. The most treasured picture on our refrig… Read more »


My thoughts on infant baptism here:

"Why I'm not baptizing my daughter"
(It's not what you think…) http://www.jessicalagrone.com/2013/03/why-im-not-


Good job Georgia Cracker! I have to try to implant this in my mind.

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